I (Don't) know what is right for you
Niti,
I am sure somewhere in the next few years, we will end up with a conversation where I will categorically state the following words
"Just Do it Niti because I know what is right for you".
That is when I want you to hyperlink your answer to this blog. I want to state it now when I am in my right senses and you are not yet challenging me with things I might not like, the above statement is not true and to add to that fact, it is pure BS (you will know what that means by the time you read this blog).
In over 30 years of my life, I could not figure out what is right for me. My mind wanders to the depts of my conscience many times to find out what is right for me but I return empty headed. Yet, it is so easy to say I know what is right for the other person. Ha Ha that is hypocrisy to the core.
This is the lesson I have learnt. People judge others based on their own personal experiences and come to ridiculous conclusions. They don’t understand and accept that the other person is capable of thinking and knowing things which are well beyond your own thought process hence, it is wise to just let others make their own decisions based on what is right for them “At that moment in Time”.
No one ever knows how things are going to turn out in the end and as individuals we only make decisions based on our past. Everybody has a different past therefore everybody has the right to make their own decisions.
I will do what is right for me and I know you will do what is right for you.
Love,
Appa